Most of my clients in my private practice come to see me because they are facing difficulties in their marriage, or in their relationships with partners, at work or at home. Is this the case for you?
Most of my clients blame poor communication. But it is not communication, it is the lack of communication. It is the lack of courage to say what needs to be said. It is the fear of having the real and meaningful conversation we all need to have, because the truth hurts. Plus, if you decide to tell the truth to your partner, you will also need to hear your truth from their perception. Who wants to do that? Only those who wish for an authentic relationship. Only those who want to live an authentic life. Only those who wants to strengthen their hearts.
The counselling process to gain courage to speak about your truth and be able to stand on your own two feet is possible. It is not easy, it is uncomfortable, and it takes time and effort. But by the end you will become more human. The counselling process has the potential to make you feel more authentic in your personal and professional relationships.
Being honest and able to tell the truth always, and being courageous is not for the faint hearted. True love is not for the weak. It will require willingness from you to stay in the heat and in the middle of the uncomfortable space, and at the same time to take care of yourself authentically. It will require from you the skills of self-soothing and to stand on your two feet alone - which is different from loneliness – and to feel OK about it.
I, Felipe Oliveira, am a Counsellor for Men seeking to live an authentic life, and I can help you with your relationship issues. Get in touch and let’s examine your life together.
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